Thursday, September 18, 2008

Grandmas Hands!

This is an email I came across and it touched me! It reminds us of our Grandmas! Grandma Bright was (still is) a very very sweet lady! I lOVED her hands for as long as I remember! How soft they were when they would touch my face when I layed my head on her shoulder! She passed away October of 2006 and we miss her dearly! Anyone of my family members will say that they remember her sweet hands and how hard she worked! Grandma Luckau as well is a very sweet lady! Also for as long as I can remember I remember my Grandma Luckau's hands as she cut up vegetables or meat and how hard she works and has worked with those hands! Grandma Empey would tickle Will's face to calm him down and help him sleep, especially whenever he had a migraine at her house. She always cooked his favorite meal of pork chops, mashed potatoes and gravy. Its true to look at hands in the perspective that hands have a great meaning and can tell a lot about your life and how hard they have worked! I really enjoyed reading this and the memories it brought to my mind.
And now with our sweet daughter I look down and see her precious hands! They are adorable and she does the sweetest, cutest things with them!! Her hands are my favorite and VERY PRECIOUS!


GRANDMA'S HANDS
Grandma, some ninety plus years, sat feebly on the patio bench. She didn't move, just sat with her head down staring at her hands.
When I sat down beside her she didn't acknowledge my presence and the longer I sat I wondered if she was OK.
Finally, not really wanting to disturb her but wanting to check on her at the same time, I asked her if she was OK. She raised her head and looked at me and smiled. 'Yes, I'm fine, thank you for asking,' she said in a clear voice strong.
'I didn't mean to disturb you, grandma, but you were just sitting here staring at your hands and I wanted to make sure you were OK,' I explained to her.
'Have you ever looked at your hands,' she asked. 'I mean really looked at your hands?'
I slowly opened my hands and stared down at them. I turned them over, palms up and then palms down. No, I guess I had never really looked at my hands as I tried to figure out the point she was making.
Grandma smiled and related this story:
'Stop and think for a moment about the hands you have, how they have served you well throughout your years. These hands, though wrinkled shriveled and weak have been the tools I have used all my life to reach out and grab and embrace life.
'They braced and caught my fall when as a toddler I crashed upon the floor.
They put food in my mouth and clothes on my back. As a child, my mother taught me to fold them in prayer. They tied my shoes and pulled on my boots. They held my husband and wiped my tears when he went off to war.
'They have been dirty, scraped and raw, swollen and bent. They were uneasy and clumsy when I tried to hold my newborn son. Decorated with my wedding band they showed the world that I was married and loved someone special
They wrote my letters to him and trembled and shook when I buried my parents and spouse.
'They have held my children and grandchildren, consoled neighbors, and shook in fists of anger when I didn't understand.
They have covered my face, combed my hair, and washed and cleansed the rest of my body. They have been sticky and wet, bent and broken,dried and raw. And to this day when not much of anything else of me works real well these hands hold me up, lay me down, and again continue to fold in prayer.
'These hands are the mark of where I've been and the ruggedness of life.
But more importantly it will be these hands that God will reach out and take when he leads me home. And with my hands He will lift me to His side and there I will use these hands to touch the face of Christ.'
I will never look at my hands the same again. But I remember God reached out and took my grandma's hands and led her home.
When my hands are hurt or sore or when I stroke the face of my children and husband I think of grandma. I know she has been stroked and caressed and held by the hands of God.

3 comments:

Hills said...

Emily this is a very sweet poem. I enjoyed it along with your comments. Thank you for sharing this. I always liked looking at Grandma Bright's hands too. Although she may have not liked her hands, I thought they were beautiful. If you look at mom's hands they are just like Grandpa Bright's hands~ which I also love!

Richard and Carolyn said...

Emily, So sweet! I received that email too, but your comments make it so much more special. You are a sweetheart!

The Watson's said...

Hey - that's a good poem and I like what you wrote about Grandma Mary and Grandma Hilde's hands.